Where's the line?

An interesting debate came up yesterday, while I was visiting my friend, her husband, and her parents. Her parents had some guests over, so there was a good sample of various aged people. We "kids" were having a private conversation, the type that wouldn't be thought of as appropriate to have with the older folks; especially when the older folks are your friend's parents. They insisted that we join them in the conversation so we announced the topic:

If a girl is, say, 30 years old, how many sexual partners are too many?

In other words, what number would make you think "eww, that's gross?" Nicole immediately said 10. Nicole's mom said that she had never been one to "sport f***." (Yes, in those words.) Nicole's husband couldn't list a number, because, as a lawyer in training, had about 2038 qualifications that went into an answer. Older Lady said that it doesn't matter as long as you are having fun and that you should enjoy life, whether your number is 3 or 30. BUT, she did say that it is gross to just go out to a bar and hook up with a random guy. Hmmm. Nicole then came back and said a number as high as 30 sounds gross, unless you think that it's only 3 per year for each year of your 20s.

So, dear blog readers, what's your number? No, not THAT number...what is the number, where if some 30 year-old gave you as her number, would you think her to be a bit skanky?

There's more where that came from...

I didn't end up meeting up with hot Navy guy from last weekend...but that's okay. Why? Because on Friday night, my friends and I managed to meet up with an even hotter group of guys. These boys weren't just in the Navy, they were Navy SEALs. I would try to describe how hot they were, but I know my words wouldn't do them justice. I don't know what kind of physical training these guys do, but whatever it is, it's working for them. OMG.

Oh, and did I mention they were all in their early 20s? That's right, cougar on the prowl. Heehee.

All I can say is I have a new found appreciation for my city and the Navy base that is an hour away. Keep 'em coming boys, keep 'em coming. How did I not realize this geographical benefit before?

As far as further details of the night? I'm pleading the 5th.